No Fats, No Fems

A Guide to Queer Empathy and Unpacking Prejudice

By Max Hovey | Publisher: HarperCollins

About the book

The essential modern guide for understanding what divides us and the path to building a better community—a revolutionary call to arms for embracing kindness and empathy, from queer advocate and sex educator Max Hovey.

Exclusionary and derogatory rhetoric in online spaces like “no fats, no fems” is often an unfortunate reality for many queer people and speaks to a larger issue at hand—but it doesn’t have to be this way.

Max Hovey has gained thousands of supporters worldwide in his efforts to challenge stereotypes and unpack the problematic ideologies queer people can place on each other—and often on themselves. Combining diverse personal testimonies and the latest research from across the LGBTQIA+ community, his groundbreaking guide explores:

  • prejudice in queer spaces through discussions of race, class, and identity
  • the historical evolution of queer thought
  • the role of intersectionality in the fight for LGBTQIA+ rights
  • internalized homophobia and its role in creating division
  • body image issues and the importance of sexual liberation
  • self-reflection through understanding different perspectives
  • ways to promote positivity and acceptance in ourselves and others
  • what having pride and community really means


Regardless of background or sexual orientation, our mutual goal is empathy, and Max gives us all the tools needed to get there. The Velvet Rage for a modern audience, No Fats, No Fems is an urgent call to action, offering a roadmap to building stronger community and a much kinder future.

Editions of No Fats, No Fems

Paperback
ISBN 9780063423466
EBook
ISBN 9780063423473

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The essential modern guide for understanding what divides us and the path to building a better community—a revolutionary call to arms for embracing kindness and empathy, from queer advocate and sex educator Max Hovey.

Exclusionary and derogatory rhetoric in online spaces like “no fats, no fems” is often an unfortunate reality for many queer people and speaks to a larger issue at hand—but it doesn’t have to be this way.

Max Hovey has gained thousands of supporters worldwide in his efforts to challenge stereotypes and unpack the problematic ideologies queer people can place on each other—and often on themselves. Combining diverse personal testimonies and the latest research from across the LGBTQIA+ community, his groundbreaking guide explores:

  • prejudice in queer spaces through discussions of race, class, and identity
  • the historical evolution of queer thought
  • the role of intersectionality in the fight for LGBTQIA+ rights
  • internalized homophobia and its role in creating division
  • body image issues and the importance of sexual liberation
  • self-reflection through understanding different perspectives
  • ways to promote positivity and acceptance in ourselves and others
  • what having pride and community really means


Regardless of background or sexual orientation, our mutual goal is empathy, and Max gives us all the tools needed to get there. The Velvet Rage for a modern audience, No Fats, No Fems is an urgent call to action, offering a roadmap to building stronger community and a much kinder future.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is No Fats, No Fems about?

The essential modern guide for understanding what divides us and the path to building a better community—a revolutionary call to arms for embracing kindness and empathy, from queer advocate and sex educator Max Hovey.

Exclusionary and derogatory rhetoric in online spaces like “no fats, no fems” is often an unfortunate reality for many queer people and speaks to a larger issue at hand—but it doesn’t have to be this way.

Max Hovey has gained thousands of supporters worldwide in his efforts to challenge stereotypes and unpack the problematic ideologies queer people can place on each other—and often on themselves. Combining diverse personal testimonies and the latest research from across the LGBTQIA+ community, his groundbreaking guide explores:

  • prejudice in queer spaces through discussions of race, class, and identity
  • the historical evolution of queer thought
  • the role of intersectionality in the fight for LGBTQIA+ rights
  • internalized homophobia and its role in creating division
  • body image issues and the importance of sexual liberation
  • self-reflection through understanding different perspectives
  • ways to promote positivity and acceptance in ourselves and others
  • what having pride and community really means


Regardless of background or sexual orientation, our mutual goal is empathy, and Max gives us all the tools needed to get there. The Velvet Rage for a modern audience, No Fats, No Fems is an urgent call to action, offering a roadmap to building stronger community and a much kinder future.

What core themes, tropes, or subjects are explored in No Fats, No Fems?

Health, Relationships and Personal development > Family and health > Coping with / advice about personal, social and health topics > Coping with / advice about mental health issues or topics

Where can I read a sample of No Fats, No Fems?

You can read an official preview of the few pages here https://www.book2look.com/book/9780063423466

Who is/are the Author/s of the book No Fats, No Fems?

Max Hovey

Who is the Publisher of the book No Fats, No Fems?

HarperCollins

What are the ISBN numbers for the physical and digital editions?

No Fats, No Fems is available as paperback(ISBN 9780063423466) and ebook(ISBN 9780063423473)

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